UCWG 091: Unceasing Self-Discovery Part 49 – Communicate Your Mind

Because your ideas will stretch beyond the realm of conventional thinking, your only hope of having others understand you (let alone join you) is to develop exceptional communication skills. Communication is not limited to the words you say. You must learn to present yourself as something people can comprehend. You must, to some degree, fit into a category within their mental hierarchy of order. It is violent and painful for a typical person to have their categories challenged.

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UCWG 090: Unceasing Self-Discovery Part 48 – Genuine Transparency

You live in a world that encourages you to acknowledge only what it warrants within you, neglecting what it contrasts with. You are trained to deny anything with the power to cause sorrow for the sake of social harmony. However you portray yourself, another world of emotion beneath the surface. Society taught you to appear comfortable at all costs, even when you are deeply troubled. You fear the social repercussions of sharing your insecurities, yet doing so publicly is the surest way to move beyond them.

Transparency changes you because it changes the world’s perceptions of you. You cannot easily return to the old way once expectations have risen. The new story you tell holds you accountable and allows you to finally bond with the people you desire.

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UCWG 089: Unceasing Self-Discovery Part 47 – Conflict and Dominance

You will be betrayed. You will be taken advantage of. Your trust will be broken and your kindness abused. In natural ecosystems, whenever animals come in conflict one of two simple conclusions is quickly reached. They leave one another alone or engage in deadly combat. The purpose of conflict is to restore or advance the social order. You either learn to communicate through conflict to arrive at a higher state of resolution, or you destroy the influence of your adversary in your life.

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UCWG 088: Unceasing Self-Discovery Part 46 – Isolated and Alienated

Without the guiding boundaries of friends and enemies alike, we drift through the world without a place to fit into. We grow to be defined by how those closest to us see and treat us until we are nothing without their constantly reaffirming acknowledgment.

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UCWG 087: Unceasing Self-Discovery Part 45 – Antagonists and Enemies

There is always an “other”. An antagonist has much to teach you, for he is the personification of your struggles and weaknesses. He is a version of you that has become perverted in his principles. He enters and contorts your psyche because he is a living reminder of what lies waiting for you if you should fail in your quest. Every villain is, after all, a failed hero.

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UCWG 086: Unceasing Self-Discovery Part 44 – Friends and Allies

Your friends are your proto new family to replace the one you started with. They are how you experiment with relationship dynamics. But you must guard yourself against prematurely attempting to forge a deeper bond with a person for whom you share only incidental qualities. Real friendships are built on principle and ideological valuation. They survive the inconvenient trials of changing circumstance. You must know who you are before you can have a legitimate friend.

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UCWG 084: Unceasing Self-Discovery Part 42 – Flowering Femininity


 

A woman seeking validation through cheap attraction factors will never develop her own sense of self worth and internal beauty. Likewise, she will never be able to radiate this beauty outward, creating order in her environment and mending broken hearts. Her obsession with attention keeps her chained to immaturity. She needs to rise above it.

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UCWG 083: Unceasing Self-Discovery Part 41 – In Search of Masculinity


To be a man who has embodied his masculinity is to live one’s life on an endless search for something. The object of that search changes throughout the stages of a man’s life and with the passing moods of each day, but he is always hunting for women, success, confrontation, challenge, answers, meaning, and more.

This is the essence of being a man that most women will never understand, as their nature is to create beauty and attract things to them. Life never offers enough to a man. He is always lonely, always hungry, forever restless in reality until he expires. Rest comes only in withdrawal from the world. Women already have something to do by the very nature of their existence. Men have to discover what they must do.

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UCWG 082: Unceasing Self-Discovery Part 40 – The Comfortable Exchange of Intercourse


Sexual intercourse is a conversation involving the most sensitive parts of the body and corners of the emotions. Until you can express yourself freely, simultaneously observing and learning from the subtle communications let out by another person whom you desire to know through deep interpersonal exchange, you will remain lost in childish fantasy of sexual conquest. You will not know the comfort that comes from total unification and removal of all barriers. You will not know yourself or them.

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UCWG 081: Unceasing Self-Discovery Part 39 – Aesthetics, Lust, and Stimulation


The quality of sex with a person depends on so many variables beyond the immediate, surface-level aesthetic appeal they hold for them. Being slim enough, or having plump-enough breasts to give you an erection is only the first step in the process of sexual exchange and enjoyment.

The man who holds instantaneous physical attraction as the highest end to the sexual experience has never experienced the depths of his own sexual awakening. He remains a boy, chasing after flashy images and shiny curves. He does not realize that the deepest sexual pleasures come from experience a woman in all her glory. Her external aesthetics are only an attractive doorway through which to reach them.

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